I Am A Ruiner

….. of laptops, that is.

Yes, I have managed to kill the beautiful MacBook Air I was given to use AFTER my old Dell died a watery death earlier this year.

Yes, I spilled a drink all over it (and posted a picture of it on Instagr.am, with rice all over the keyboard) and now it won’t turn on.

Yes, ALL of my baby’s pictures are on it and no, I did not think to back them up or had the opportunity to upload them in my ThisLife account.

Yes, I am an idiot.

And yes, my husband found another laptop for me from his stash at the office and it works. It’s no MacBook Air, the battery is crap and needs to be on charger at all times, it takes forever to boot up, but it works.

When I sent him a text in the middle of the afternoon to inform him that I had ruined yet another laptop, his immediate response was to tell me to put it in rice (I had).

His next response was to tell me to take photographs of it as “this  makes a good blog post.”

Yes, when you’re married to a blogger, that’s how you think, naturally.

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. -Maya Angelou

Thank you Husband, for not making me feel like an idiot. For not making me feel bad about my carelessness. For hustling up a laptop for me as soon as you could because you know how lost I feel without one.

You could easily have given me a gentle lecture on not putting drinks next to computers and other electronic products, but you did not.

You could have made me feel guilty for nearly losing all our baby’s pictures (priceless) and I would have agreed with you, but you did not.

Instead, you hugged me and told me it’s okay, we can retrieve those pictures. Instead, you went to the office and got me a working computer. Instead, you encouraged me to write a blog post about it.

Merci, my dear man. Merci.

Linking up with Sarah of little white whale for The Spill.

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Comments

  1. mumsgather says:

    That’s awfully sweet of your man. :)
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  2. Julie says:

    You know, you don’t write of him often so it is lovely to see a glimpse of your husband. I am do glad that he is so sweet to you and that he takes your blogging so seriously! ;)

  3. Victoria KP says:

    He’s a keeper! I drowned our very first digital camera (remember way back when people still used film and digital cameras were REALLY expensive?). Yup, I have a cursed touch with electronics!
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  4. Barbara says:

    Oh, I’m sorry about the MacBook. Your husband sounds like a great guy!
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  5. Kerstin
    Twitter: kerstinauer
    says:

    Oh damn. Too bad about the laptop, but your husband is right – don’t beat yourself up about it! The most important thing is that you can retrieve the pictures, right?
    I’m glad he was so supportive, way to go husband!
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  6. Sarah @littlewhitewhale says:

    Ooh that is so crappy! But yay for husbands and their stashes of extra laptops :) Confession–I am a ruiner of phones. Mine usually meet a watery death too. It’s embarassing how many go in the toilet, literally. Truly, your husband sounds so sweet and he knows you so well. Of course you’d turn this situation into a fab blog post :)

    • Alison says:

      I’ve been pretty lucky (or careful?) with phones. Though when the toddler was a baby, he threw my phone on the ground and broke the screen. So there’s that. :)

  7. Amy ~ Eat. Live. Laugh. Shop. says:

    So sweet! I love that you turned this bad event into a loving moment. Sometimes we don’t stop to see the good. His reaction was good!
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  8. Mark says:

    I’m afraid I would have made you feel guilty for losing those photos. Only because that sounds like something that I would do. But you’re lucky, Fred wouldn’t have been so kind to you had you been married to him. I would have heard about it for years.
    I’m still hoping that you can same how save that photos. You’re killing me here!
    m.
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    • Alison says:

      I hope so too! The husband assures me they can definitely retrieve it, as the hard drive should be safe. Wish me luck!

  9. Jessica says:

    That is terrible, but what a great guy that you have and I love that you see it rather than taking it for granted.

  10. Katie says:

    in the five years that I have been blogging, I have had 3 laptops. I just use them right to death.
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  11. vanita says:

    oh wow. i feel you girl. i cracked hubby’s new ipod screen. blah. im so damn clumsy. is your mac still under warranty? apple can extract your files for you. if not, you can buy an external drive enclosure, take the hard drive out of the mac, put it in the disclosure, plug the enclosure into a working mac, do not let it format the drive! and retrieve your files. they’re not gone. you can get them. let me know if you need instructions and i’ll find them for you, but only attempt if having a pro do it is not possible.
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    • vanita says:

      p.s. my hubby isn’t a blogger but he’s pretty cool like your hubby. doesn’t freak and reminds me to write about it. lol.
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    • Alison says:

      It’s no longer under warranty, we’ll just have to pay to get the data extracted. Sigh.

      Also, my husband isn’t a blogger either, but I think he enjoys having one as a wife!

  12. Leslie says:

    Can we get your husband to talk to mine? I would be excoriated if I spilled drinks on my keyboard (mostly because the husband is a total computer hardware nerd). Here’s hoping you get another computer soon!
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    • Alison says:

      My husband is a tech junkie too! So he understands accidents (or in my case, spillages) happen. I have another laptop – back to using a Dell. I miss my Mac, sigh.

  13. Alma says:

    a moment of silence for your Mac ….
    now a moment to tell you that your husband is awesome!
    Personally I cannot imagine blogging without a cup of coffee or a bowl of something sweet. I am clumsy and only a matter of time for me to be writing this post.
    At least my Mac is still under warranty … after that all is shot to hell.
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  14. Heather C says:

    Oh no!!!!!!! I’m sorry you lost all of your pictures, that is truly heartbreaking. RIP macbook air. Hope your awesome hub finds you a new one.
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    • Alison says:

      It’s not totally lost. I just have to get the laptop to an Apple service centre to extract the hard disk. Wish me luck!

  15. Susi says:

    That’s just too sweet for words. Hope you get all the pictures off your computer. I can’t count the times I have heard… “you should blog about this!” :)
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  16. Jessica says:

    Oh, that sucks. But, I have similar luck with technology. Your husband is awesome. My husband would have both laughed and had a panic attack. lol.
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  17. Co-Pilot Mom says:

    Sorry about your computer. I am very clumsy, but I am fortunate that spills usually wind up on floors, furniture, or – most likely of all – me. Hope you can retrieve your photos without hassle.
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  18. Galit Breen says:

    So sorry about your laptop, so happy about your guy – he’s a keeper! <3
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  19. Phase Three of Life says:

    This is me with phones. I cannot tell you how many poor, defenseless phones I have destroyed.

    Also, your hubby is such a gem. :)

  20. Heather says:

    I’m so sorry to hear this! I hope it dries out and works again soon.
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  21. Jess says:

    RIP MacBook Air.

    Your husband deserves a brownie.

  22. Sisterhood of the Sensible Moms says:

    Now that, that right there, is true love. Swoon. RIP MacBook Air. Ellen
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  23. Christine @ Love, Life, Surf says:

    Oh no!! RIP MacBook Air
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  24. Charlotte says:

    *sniff*

    What a guy. This just melts my heart :) (And as a blogger, I happen to love that he supports you so much in this way. KEEPER!)
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  25. Kimberly says:

    RIP sweet Mac.

    That photo makes me cry for you.

  26. Alexandra says:

    Life with gratitude.

    An attitude of gratitude.

    You, sweet lady, are a wonderful wife and mother.

    xo
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  27. francerants says:

    Hey Alison – Just catching up! Hope you and kiddies are well.

    Maybe you should start using a sippy cup around your laptop………

  28. Laura @ Mommy Miracles says:

    Yay for your hubby! What a great man! Obviously you feel crappy enough losing your beloved laptop and pictures. I am so sorry it doesn’t work! Maybe you can get someone to open it up and take out the hard drive and see if they can save your pictures? I’m not really sure how it works, but it wouldn’t hurt to find out.
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    • Alison says:

      Yes, we’re going to take it to a service centre to extract the data – all is not lost! At least, that’s what my husband kindly tells me.

  29. Kimberly says:

    Oh he is wonderful.
    My husband would tear into me for doing something like that. Yes, Shawn would.
    All isn’t lost as far as your pictures are concerned. Can you bring it into a computer tech guy? I’m sure that they can pull them off of the hard drive?? Hopefully?
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    • Alison says:

      That’s the plan! Now it’s just a matter of nagging the Husband into taking it into the service centre ASAP.

  30. Jessica says:

    I felt really sick when you mentioned that it was your new Macbook. But when I read the part about the baby pictures I was literally nauseated. True fact. And yes, holy moly your husband rocks. I have a feeling he knew you were doing plenty of self-flagellation and didn’t need any assistance in that department. *SO* relieved you can retrieve the pictures (and relieved for me that you have something else workable so you can keep posting).
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    • Alison says:

      I was near tears when I realized I could have potentially lost ALL of my kids photos, when he told me we can get the stuff out. Relief.

  31. Kir says:

    oh poor laptop…but you, you don’t RUIN anything!!!!! NOTHING.
    accidents? Pfft, they happen to the best of us, and you are.

    and that husband, much like my own, is a keeper. Mine is always saying, “are you going to ‘use” that for the blog??” I love it too…so glad you got hugs AND a laptop. :)

    xo
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  32. AnnMarie says:

    Oh, Alison! I did the same thing to my new Dell about seven months after I started blogging. I lost everything on it, recovered some of it. I was using my husband’s when I spilled yet another but luckily didn’t harm it. I am a ruiner of things too. My heart feels your pain, my friend.

    And your hubby…I think I love him a little.
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    • AnnMarie says:

      That was supposed to say: lost almost everything on it.
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    • Alison says:

      Oh hello fellow ruiner! So glad you recovered some stuff. I’m holding out on getting all my photos out. Wish me luck.

  33. Stasha says:

    He is a good man. Sorry about your loss my friend. Sippy cups from now on? ( they are not just for kids you know ;)

  34. Kiddothings says:

    okay, I don’t get the rice thing. That man of yours is a keeper. My hubby would’ve lectured me till kingdom come.
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  35. Erin says:

    Oh no poor MacBook Air  Such a good hubby you have to be so supportive! I dumped a Coke on my keyboard 2 times in college. Thankgoodness it was just the keyboard and not the whole darn thing!
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  36. Robin @ Farewell, Stranger says:

    Awesome. Both the photo and his reaction.
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  37. Natalie says:

    Awww that is sweet…he’s a real keeper!
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  38. My Inner Chick
    Twitter: krrobi
    says:

    —He’s a KEEPER :)

    That’s the kind of dude I like! XX
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  39. tracy@sellabitmum says:

    RIP dear Mac. I am so so sorry.:((( xoxo
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  40. Sue says:

    OooohhhNoooooooo.

    So sorry, darlin.

    And that groom of yours is the bomb.
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  41. Tonya says:

    Having an understanding partner is the best. :)
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  42. Arnebya says:

    I have yet to ruin laptop or phone but I can imagine just how lost you’d feel without either. I’m glad you have that support. It doesn’t matter how long it takes you to get online (or what you’re using), as long as you show up, right?

  43. Leighann says:

    Did he fix it!!?
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  44. Bruna
    Twitter: beeswithhoney
    says:

    Ouch. You have a good man by your side, Alison :)
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  45. Not a Perfect Mom says:

    because I am a ruiner of things also, my husband got a 3 year no matter what the hell the wife or children do to the Mac they will replace it warranty…
    I’m so sorry for your loss
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  46. Runnermom-jen says:

    Yikes! Join the club!! Your husband sounds wonderful. I think mine would have been all…”WTF?!”
    xo
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