Things I’ll Miss And Things I Won’t

This Listicle is inspired by the late Nora Ephron, who wrote a list of things she’ll miss and things she won’t, in her final book.

Writing this made me a little sad, but it also made me appreciate what I do have and the time I still have, to love and do all the things I will miss.

Starting off with….

Things I Won’t Miss

Traffic

Paperwork

Bills

Telemarketers

Beans

Stupid Facebook updates

Meat

Living in the city

Driving

Noisy toys

Ironing

Sound of sirens

Mosquitoes

Humidity

Vacuuming

And…..

Things I Will Miss

My sons

My husband

Chocolate

Writing

Laughter

Sunsets

Trashy reality TV

Really good TV shows like Downton Abbey and Dexter

Rain

Flowers

The smell of freshly baked bread

Hot showers

Tea

Manicures

Coffee

Books

Grocery shopping

Instagr.am

Music

Cupcakes

Sunshine

Writing lists

What will you miss and what won’t you miss?

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Gratitude #11

Last weekend was the first time in 2.5 months that I missed writing a gratitude post. I was feeling blah and less than thankful, which is so not the attitude I like.

Thankfully, this week has been different.

This has been a blogging week full of sunshine, rainbows and unicorns, and I’m grateful.

I had an awesome guest, one of my bloggy idols, Sandra for my Guest Star series. I wrote a guest post I was really proud of, I successfully baked for the first time this yummy coconut bread, and it was #BlogBoycottDay on Friday, which meant more time on Twitter!

However, there was a dark spot in the week, when I encountered a hurtful situation, my first one in blogging (at least the first one that truly bothered me). ‘Inspired’ (or incensed, depending on how you see it), I wrote this post.

Over 100 comments. 105 tweets. Countless retweets.

I’m not quoting statistics to brag. I’m telling you because I was completely blown away by the unexpected reaction to the post. Before I hit ‘publish’, I took a deep breath and crossed my fingers that I wouldn’t lose too many readers, face too much backlash. After all, I was writing about something that was sensitive in the blogging world. I was calling out the bloggers who do not blog by the Golden Rule.

I wrote the post in a fog of hurt, anger, indignation and sadness.

I published it in under a cloud of self-doubt.

I read the comments basking in the warm glow of kind words of support and understanding, from regular readers and complete strangers, all bloggers who understood where I was coming from and where I wanted to head with it.

From a dark place, the blogging world pulled me back out into the sunshine, and restored my faith.

And for that, I am grateful.

What are you grateful for this week?

Linking up with Leigh Ann of Genie in a Blog for Attitude of Gratitude.

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Gratitude #10

It’s been a long 8 months since we decided to buy a new place, and started the tedious process of property purchase in Malaysia.

After all the negotiations, delays, mountains of paperwork and waiting, we are very close to moving in. We just need to close on a few documents, go out and buy furniture and furnishings (and change some extremely ugly lights), give the whole place a good clean, and people, we will move in. We’re trying to get it all done in 4 to 6 weeks. I cannot wait.
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